May we suggest some slippery self-love?

Lube
Written By Bec Patterson

In our last post, we debunked some common beliefs with lube, shed the ridiculous shame around using and enjoying this magical, slippery substance and hailed lube as the wetter is better queen of sex care.

And with that, we gently remind you that May is International Masturbation Month — launched in the ’90s when a US Surgeon General was fired for saying the word masturbation out loud. Yes, really!

So, being the 1st of May, what better time to celebrate this glorious month and the importance of self-pleasure as a natural and healthy part of human sexuality by digging a little deeper into our exposé on lube!

©Bed Intentions. Photography Daniel Herrmann-Zoll.

Lubrication, the cornerstone of self-pleasure, in our opinion, enhances comfort, reducing friction, and elevates the overall experience. Because when it comes to solo time, good friction starts with less friction.

Let’s slip into something more comfortable and dive into the importance of knowing exactly what you’re putting in your body… keeping your pussy and the planet purrrrrring along happily.

How to choose the right lube

At Margo’s we stock two types - water based and oil based - all natural and toxin free ofc.

We recommend giving both a go - because bodies, moods, desires and needs call for different types, at different times:

Water-Based: The good all rounder! Clean, toy-safe, condom-friendly, and easy to wash off. Great for all kinds of sex and solo play. Not great for shower or water play.

Oil-Based: Rich, nourishing, and slow to evaporate. Not condom-safe, but ideal for massage, skin-on-skin, anal, shower play or longer sessions. Be careful with some types of oil based lube with bedsheets and some silicone toys.

What about silicone lubes or hybrids? Silicone-based lubes are known for their ultra-long-lasting glide and water resistance (hello, shower sex), not so great with silicone sex toys as they can break down. And hybrids? Generally a combo of silicone and water. We don’t stock any silicone lubes—yet—as we’re holding out for formulas that meet our strict standards for body-safety, ingredient integrity and sustainability. But as always, we’re keeping our eyes (and legs) open.

Margo’s featuring Bruxa’s Lubrication of Water

Let’s dive into our Margo’s approved edit of elite, locally-made lubes…

At Margo’s, we don’t just stock any old slip and slide. Every product in our lube edit is strictly vetted to meet our highest standards for clean ingredients, safety, sustainability, and ethos. That means:

  • No parabens, no glycerin, no petrochemicals or any other toxic ingredients.

  • No hormone disruptors. No BS.

  • Just natural, body-safe goodness that supports your pleasure, health, and the planet.

We only stock from independent, Australian-made brands—most of them based right here in Melbourne —that align with our values of transparency, integrity, and joyful self-connection.

This edit is the best of the best. No overwhelm, no “maybe” products. Just the ones we actually use ourselves. Because your body deserves nothing less.

WATER-BASED

1. Natural Prebiotic Water-Based Lubricant by Bed Intentions, $35

An award-winning, world first, nourishing blend that supports vaginal health and pH balance with prebiotics. Think of it as your microbiome’s BFF—perfect for daily play or sensitive babes.

2. Lubrication of Water by Bruxa, $42

A minimalist’s (wet) dream and reading like a high-end skincare product (hint: it is!!!). A pure, plant-based bioactive formulation with zero fillers. This advanced blend combines the regenerative properties of Tasmanian Kelp, moisture-retaining betaine and dual-molecular-weight Hyaluronic Acid. Feels like your body made it herself.

3. Fluid Water-Based Lubricant by Figr, from $22

A pH balanced blend of native Australian extracts. Made for every body, every occasion. Long-lasting, gentle, and gender-inclusive. A universal go-to that doesn’t mess around or leave a sticky residue. Also comes in a purse-sized mini, perfect for pleasure on the go!

4. A Quiet Night In by Gentil, $35

A luxe lube that doubles as an invitation. Clean, silky, and slow-burning—perfect for setting the mood solo or with someone lucky.

5. Playmate Water-Based Lubricant by Tussle, $30

This one brings a playful bounce to your bedside. Safe with toys, great for any position, and cheeky by name and nature.

OIL-BASED

1. Whipped Sex Butter by Nunie, $69

Yes, it’s as good as it sounds and it’s formulated and hand-whipped by naturopaths! A rich, creamy balm that melts into skin for foreplay, massage, and deep pleasure. Whipped, not stiff.

Nunie’s Whipped Sex Butter. © MARGO’S, photography by Courtney King (@courtneykingphoto), art direction by Bec Patterson (@rebecca_ellie_stylist)

2. Natural Oil-Based Tingle Balm by Bed Intentions, $48

Wakes everything up with a little tingle. An award winning, stimulating blend that’s part lube, part arousal balm, in a cute, eco-friendly capsule format — great for external play and warm-up sessions. These 100% plastic-free dissolvable capsules put the play into pleasure. Perfect for travel sessions in a recyclable pink tin.

3. Lubrication of Oil by Bruxa, $35

Pure plant-powered glide. Minimalist, moisturising, and made for slow, sensual exploration. Think body oil… but better. A 100% natural, hand-poured pure botanical blend of hydrating oils, this plant-based bioactive formulation ensures our bodies receive thoughtfully selected ingredients.

4. Extra Virgin Oil-Based Lubricant by Tussle, $40

Organic, indulgent, and outrageously smooth. A luxe natural blend for solo or shared moments. Shower sex approved and edible.  Go on—get extra.

So the main take away here?

Masturbation Month isn’t just a marketing moment — it’s a reminder that your pleasure matters. It’s personal, hormonal, playful, sometimes healing — and completely yours.

And while you’re showing up for yourself, make sure your lube is doing the same. Skip the sickly-sweet, sticky bottles from the back of the supermarket shelf. Glycerin? No thanks. At Margo’s, we do the hard work for you — curating only the cleanest, safest, most body-loving lubes made from ingredients your vulva would actually high-five you for. Because self-love should never come with a side of mystery chemicals.

So carve out time. Light a candle. Lube up. And remember: self-love isn’t selfish — it’s sexy.

Bec Patterson

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